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What Do Deep And Real Human Connections Look Like
It’s great to have an extensive network full of friends, family, and colleagues, but how many of those human connections could you say are deep and real? We are social creatures, and we have all kinds of strategies, some direct and some very complicated, for changing our social relationships. We all seek meaningful relationships in our lives, yet many of us struggle to find and foster deep connections. Whether it be with a friend, family member, or romantic partner, having meaningful connections can be extremely rewarding.
We’ve all had those relationships in our lives that seem to go beyond the ordinary. They’re the ones where you can tell each other anything, and you know that the other person cares. Deep and real human connections are powerful, and they affect us in ways we don’t always realize. But what do these connections actually look like?
In today’s world, it can be hard to make meaningful connections with others. With the rise of technology and social media, it’s easier than ever to interact with people but harder than ever to cultivate deep and lasting relationships.
Most of what we do every day serves this goal. What follows is not a list of strategies but things to look for to know when your connection is real so that you can have a specific aim with your goals other than a vague “deepen our connection.”
Handling Bad News
When was the last time you had to give a friend bad news? How did they handle it? How scared were you to tell them? They might be tempted to lose their temper if you had anything to do with the bad news.
The dread of telling someone a difficult truth can be overbearing, but when you have a deep connection, the trust that you share allows you to be honest without fear. You don’t sweep your mistakes under the rug because you know they can handle the truth when it comes from you.
Giving bad news is never easy, especially when it involves someone close to you. Whether the news affects a romantic relationship or a friendship, it can be difficult to find the right words and know how to handle the situation. Here are some tips on how to give bad news while preserving your relationship:
First, make sure that your intentions are genuine and honest. Don’t sugarcoat the truth or try to avoid giving an answer altogether; speak with compassion and care, but don’t be afraid of being direct about what you have to say. Next, take time beforehand to consider potential reactions from the other person and plan out what you’ll say ahead of time in order to maintain control over the conversation. Finally, listen carefully as they share their response so that you can understand their point of view and help them work through any feelings they may have.
Tension, Conflict and Understanding
In even the best relationships, tension and conflict are inevitable. Spend enough time with anyone, and you will find things that annoy you and share experiences that test the strength of your relationship. If the connection is weak, the friendship could easily fracture.
When the connection is strong, the damage from the fight will not be great enough to break the relationship completely, offering an opportunity to heal. Also, with real connection comes understanding, so a conflict that would otherwise turn ugly resolves with more care and willingness to be wrong.
The willingness to be wrong allows two people in conflict to come to terms without burning their friendship to the ground. We avoid the feeling of being wrong like the plague when it’s with someone whose connection with us is weaker or nonexistent.
Conflict in a relationship can be uncomfortable, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of your friendship. Learning how to handle disagreements and confrontations can help you not only avoid unnecessary stress or hurt feelings, but also strengthen your relationship. Here are some tips for navigating conflict with someone you care about:
First and foremost, communication is key. It’s important to be honest and open with each other without being overly critical or judgmental. Listen closely to what the other person has to say before responding so that both parties feel heard and understood. Additionally, try to remain focused on the issue at hand rather than bringing up unrelated grievances – this will help keep things civil and productive!
Finally, it’s essential to practice empathy during conflicts in relationships.
Ego Can Be Detrimental
Ego is not a factor when we share a connection with someone. When you are wrong, your real friends will not pounce on you to punish you for being mistaken. This allows us to get our ego out of the way when conflict arises.
Having an ego can be detrimental to a relationship – romantic or platonic. Whether it’s with a friend, family member, or significant other, too much ego can lead to conflict and tension. Even if the relationship starts off strong, unchecked egos can quickly erode away respect and friendship.
An inflated ego often leads to feelings of superiority, which can make us blind to the feelings of others. This creates a situation where conversations become one-sided and there is no give-and-take in discussions. In addition, someone with an overly large ego may not be willing to compromise or work together with their partner in solving issues that arise in the relationship.
Is Respect a Pillar of Your Relationship?
The best way for two people to maintain a healthy relationship is by showing mutual respect and understanding for each other’s point of view and needs.
Anyone who shares with you a real connection will be aware of your boundaries. The comfort and trust you share will make it easier to express and assert your limits. Is disrespect for your boundaries any different than disrespect for your consent? Deep respect is an absolute requirement for any deep connection. Whether it’s between friends, family members, or romantic partners, respect can help foster trust and understanding while reducing conflict and hurt feelings.
Respect in relationships means being mindful of the other person’s needs and not doing anything to intentionally hurt or disrespect them. It also requires that each person involved put aside their ego and take responsibility for their words and actions. Respectful communication is key to any successful relationship; it allows people to express themselves without fear of judgement or criticism from the other person.
By valuing each other’s opinions, respecting boundaries, being honest with one another and avoiding gossiping about each other to third parties – respect can be a powerful tool for building strong relationships that last over time.
Is Silence Golden or Awkward?
When you’re talking to someone you just met, and the conversation hits a lull, what do you usually do? The natural response is to fill the gap with absolutely anything to avoid a moment of awkward silence.
When you have a deep connection, you can share moments of silence without feeling compelled to speak. You’ve said all the important things and feel content just sharing one another’s presence. There’s no longer a need to impress, no pressing questions, and no fear of awkwardness.
When it comes to relationships, communication is key. The amount of talking and conversing between two people can be an indication of how healthy the relationship is overall. While most people focus on the importance of verbal communication in a relationship, silence can also play an important role.
On one hand, there are times when silence is detrimental to a relationship – such as when a conversation goes silent due to tension or disagreement between partners. When this happens, it’s important for both parties to take some time to reflect and think about what went wrong before looking for ways to repair any damage that has been done.
Conversely, there are also times where silence can actually be beneficial for a relationship – such as when both partners use it as an opportunity to simply enjoy each other’s company without having to fill the space with words.
Filters Applied Judiciously
Speaking to all the varied people we meet daily causes us to develop filters and personas for different types of people. We want to be in control of how we’re perceived and maintain a good reputation at work, in the family, and within our social networks. The ones we share a true connection with know who we really are behind our filters and masks. This allows us to drop our pretense and be ourselves.
We become open and willing to show our entire selves, the good, the bad, and the ugly, without judgment. Only when we can share our vulnerabilities and insecurities does the connection become real. Talking about the deep stuff is as easy as chatting about the small stuff. Extended eye contact is easy and natural. We begin to feel seen.
Going Forward
Real human connections require us to be present and engaged in the moment, to give our undivided attention. We need to take a step back from our phones and screens, and create intentional opportunities for meaningful conversations. We should strive to make time for those we love, recognize their feelings, and offer support in times of need. It can also be beneficial to reach out beyond our circles and get involved in our local communities.
In conclusion, having real human connections is an essential part of life and can be achieved in simple ways as described above. The strategies are covered in the article that can get you on the road to developing meaningful relationships. Start by making the effort to connect with others and open up about yourself, even if it can be difficult. Be thoughtful when you listen to others and try to understand their perspective. Express yourself honestly and authentically and reach out when you need help or support. Ultimately, these small steps can add up to create meaningful relationships that last over time. So why not make the effort today?
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